This season of The Bachelorette has been one for the history books—between the two full-time bachelorettes, the 32 (!!) men, and, of course, the general confusion, chaos, and communication issues that ensued, it’s been a doozy.

There’s been plenty of tears, a villain or two, and some mid-season baby daddy drama. Plus, everything has been going down on a cruise ship, with the gals searching for love during various stops in faraway places.

Bless Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia for their persistence and dedication to finding love. Your service will not be overlooked, ladies!

And if they’re lucky, perhaps they’ll end their wine, cheese, and beach tours with a devoted hubby, making it onto the list of couples from the Bachelor Universe who are still together. But only time will tell.

For now, you can stop holding your breath because Reality Steve dropped a *ton* of season 19 finale spoilers and I am honestly confused, intrigued, and happy all at the same time. So, let’s dive in.

Warning: Spoilers ahead! Stop reading here if you don’t want to know what happens during season 19 of The Bachelorette!

What happens on Gabby’s dates in the first fantasy suite episode?

The fantasy suite dates span two Bachelorette episodes, with one airing on September 5th and the other on September 6th.

During Gabby and Erich’s date, the couple shared their deep feelings for each other. After jumping into the waters of a cenote in Mexico, Gabby said that Erich makes her feel “really safe” in…